Long Island Sex TherapyDr. Valerie Pinhas

Rapid Ejaculation: Premature Conclusions

Dear Dr. Valerie Pinhas, First of let me start off by saying I don’t know where to begin. So I’m just going to tell you what I know and hope...

Fellatio: Heads Up or Heads Down

Dear Dr. P I’ve never been a fan of oral sex. I’ve only performed oral sex to my ex-bf of 3 years & even with him it took me a... Read MoreF...

Touchy about Sex No More

Dr. Pinhas, I have to let you know how much of and imprint you’ve left in my life. I am not currently sexually active because I am waiting f...

Coming Out: Don't Ask, Just Tell

I have been following the posts on Uganda, as well as Jay’s and Cindy’s posts. I am a gay male who unfortunately did not have the same posit...

Sexual Desire: What's up between us?

I am 36 year old mom .the last time i had sex with my husband the night when we conceived our daughter. Its been 2 years we do not have... R...

Sexual Trauma and The Aftermath

Hi Dr. Pinhas, I am not too sure how to approach this topic, so I apologize in advance for the possible rambling that may occur. I am taking...

Safe Sex: Heh, Ya Never Know

I’m a gay man and have been dating my current boyfriend for a little over a year. We have not practiced safe sex for the majority of our rel...

Uganda's Homophobia

I posted this comment on Gay Rights: An Out of the Closet Recollection.  I think it is important enough to stand on it's own so I've reposte...

Achieving Orgasm: DJ'ing Onself

Hi professor, this is K.  I may seem quiet in class but i'm just taking it all in, i took this class because i needed and wanted to know mor...

Sex Toys, Boys and Vaginal Joys

Dr. Pinhas, When a girl uses a sex toy (object that penetrates) while having intercourse with one other partner does this mean she would lik...

Moms and Birth Control

Hi Dr. Pinhas, So when we were on the topic of birth control I called my aunt and asked her what she thinks my mom would do if I brought......

Intrafamilial Sexual Abuse: Not again!

Dr. Pinhas My boyfriend and I have been together for about 3 1/2 years. When he found out about the incest in my family and what my step fat...

Cystitis: The UTI Direction Infection

hey prof its A from your human sexuality class. i have a friend that said she might have had an UTI. she said her vagina was burning every t...

The Chlamydia Discovery: What to do?

hi Dr.Pinhas my boyfriend was diagnosed with chalymdia and he has been started with the treatment today and i probably think i may have it t...

Oedipal Complex: Who'se ya Daddy

hey dr. pinhas, i was thinking about today's lecture and how you were talking about how little boys go through this phase in which they're c...

Cunnilingus: Eating Forbidden Fruit

hello Dr.Pinhas my boyfriend refused to go down on me and we talk about it. i think because of his culture he feels its nasty but he did do...

Anal Intercourse: No Butts About It

hello Dr. V my boyfriend is begging me to have anal sex. but i personally feel a > bit uncomfortable about it. after giving it a long though...

Panties Preventing Pregnancy

Hi Dr Pinhas, I'm in your Human Sexuality class. The other night my boyfriend and I were fooling around, and he started to rub his penis aga...

Anxiety Hot Flashes: It's Not Menopause

Alert: The users email-address has been added to the addressbook HI Dr. Pinhas: It's A from human sexuality class In my public speaking clas...

The Hymen and The Cherry Popper

I had my first real boyfriend when I was sixteen, and before him I never did ANYTHING sexually. We were fooling around one night and he star...

Transgendered: Who Am I?

Question My partner is a counselor in the school system.  She received an e-mail from a student in 8th grade (13 yrs old) tell her that she...

Can I Be Pregnant?

QUESTION I am 5 weeks late on my menstrual period I took a  EPT test and it came out negative. I’ ve had an abortion already about a year ag...

Coitus Interruptus: Easy Come, Easy Go?

Question from C Is there a benefit or problem for a woman when a man ejaculates inside her once past or during the menopause stage? I had re...

Prostatic Hyperplasia: Sleepless Nights

Question from Anonymous: My husband,(and I say this heavy-heartedly and handily) has been a prostate sufferer for the last dozen years. And...